I met a guy online and developed a relationship with him. Over time I started to know that person pretty well. One time we broke up, and shortly after that, the abuse started. He sent me number of severe assault messages. I tried to apologize, be understanding, and tried to sort things out with him in general, but all of that didn't work :(. I was hoping he would calm down, accept my apology and move on, but he would keep on sending me threat messages. The worst text he sent me is, "I don't care about your feelings, go kill yourself!". I of course ended up blocking all contact with him. I partially moved on, but this cyber bullying incident keeps haunting me unexpectedly. I have a good excuse to be worried over this, I don't feel safe. This person doesn't have any friends and doesn't want to make friends, he got into many serious physical fights, and held a grudge with someone for over 8 years. His personality is messed up. He seems to be dangerous. What if I meet him by unlucky coincidence? He might physicaly abuse me or even worse, murder me. How screwed am I?
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You should take ANY form of threats serious. Whether online or offline, via text msgs/phone calls or in person, etc. It will probably take some time for u to get over the abuse. Thats normal. Do u have someone that u can confide in that u can talk about this too? Someone u can talk about it to when you're feeling down. I been through a similar situation. In my case the guy kept sending me harassing text messages because I did not want to talk to him anymore. There's time I feel like how dare he say those stuff to me just because I dont want to talk to him anymore. As if I dont have a choice. Then there's times Im glad I dodged a bullet. But what help is having someone to talk to about it. So all the best hun. I don't know what else he said to u but just know that if he call u any degrading names, dont believe it & if the threats continue u can get the cops involved. All the best hun.1