Okay, so I only live like 5 minutes from my gym. I go every day, so I see a lot of the same faces. Sometimes I see this weird guy. He always uses the machine opposite to me. And if I'm in the pilates or bodyweight section, he just lifts dumbells or does sit ups right across from where I am. And about a minute after I finish with a section, he gets off his section and moves to whatever machine is in front of me. I've run into his head something like 6 times, and everytime, he does this.
I just try not to make eye contact and go about my own workout. He doesn't stare at me, he just moves around in front of me. Am I about to end up on the next episode of Murder Book?
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He might just have a crush on you and is trying to either get your attention to notice him or work up the courage to ask you out.
I think it's highly unlikely he's a crazy murder or something.
But this isn't about him, if you don't feel safe take steps to make yourself feel more comfortable. Maybe get a friend to tag along with like a gym buddy. Or carry one of those key chain alarms or whistles for noise, and be watchful of your surroundings. Tell the managers at the gym, if you really feel threatened. Whatever you need to do to feel safe.
But i honestly think he's probably just a really shy guy, and is acting strange cause maybe he likes you.0