I think I'm an ugly person because I get no attention or compliments from any female but my friends do I know you'll say it's about personality but I don't feel like it's that way.. I hate my life
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There's no step by step process to get over insecurity I'm afraid, but I think that if you try to not dwell on what others think about you so much that might help. I understand what you mean too, I get no attention and it's discouraging but I think once you kind of stop caring about it, is when things happen for you. Though it's quite hard not to care. Try to focus your mind on other things and don't let it get you down to much. I don't believe people can totally get over their insecurities but I think you can 'surpress' them a bit.
Also to me personality is the biggest factor but people also need the physical attraction in order for a relationship to work, don't give up but also don't spend to much time on it.0