I've noticed, at least on here, that a lot of women have little to no idea how men think. They're just plain clueless tbh. Most of them assume that we're difficult people and every time a girl asks a question involving a guy, she expects our answers to be super complex like it is in her mind. But in reality, our answers are the obvious.
Example: Girl asks if a guy who calls her beautiful, enjoys talking to her, is always trying to get her to notice him, asks her if she wants to go out sometime, likes her.
What she expects: "There's so much more that goes into how he feels because blah blah blah His behavior could mean everything and anything etc. etc. etc."
What we tell her: "Yes. He likes you. Why are you making this so difficult for yourself?"
Yes, I know men can be just as clueless with women, but those men usually are just clueless in general. A lot of these women & girls that ask these type of questions are pretty smart with everything else and usually have common sense.
And as for women (on here), I've noticed that they're not as straightforward with guys as we are with girls. They expect us "to just know" if they like us or not. They are always acting self conscious about themselves and asking silly questions like "I have a thigh gap, do guys find that ugly?" even though it's THEM that make things like that such a big deal. They think giving us hints will work when it's been proven time and time again that hints don't work for shit.
I can go on and on but then some of you will accuse me of being some "MRA woman hater who's mad because he doesn't have a girlfriend" or whatever. These are just my observations and my opinion. Am I saying that only women act like this? Hell no!
- Women are more complicatedVote A
- Men are more complicatedVote B
- They're both equally complicatedVote C
- NeitherVote D
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I'd think women, from my personal account Because sometimes I feel like everyone else knows me more than I think I know myself. or I'll say something outloud but what I actually meant was totally different. Also I tend to overthink and analyze many things which makes things even more difficult than what it really is. I also can get overly emotional which will make my actions irrational. I envy how guys can also be so straight forward about things, when I don't even know what I want. I'm indecisive about a lot of things too. But I don't know that's just me. Can't speak for all women1