For 1 year now this girl was constanly making fun of me and saying how i suck at everything and i can't do anything and how my life sucks, etc... Funny thing is, after she wants to be with me to hangout. So 2 days ago i had enough of this, and she said something about how i can't find a job and kept poking me, so i told her to please sstop, she didn't and i got mad and basically pushed her off the couch and told her to f*ck off and (what your about to read is a lie but i said it to make her feel like i did, she is actually very beautiful) basically said how ugly she looks and how i'm emabrrsed to be with her. I just couldn't take it after a year of this, my self-esteem went down cause of her. So basically she started to cry and i told her "now you know how i felt for a year".
She did apologize to me like 5 times and i said sorry for pushing her and told her she is nowhere near ugly and very gorgous. We are both ok now and she said she is willing to listen to me on how i felt. So after when i pushed her one of her friends texted me and i guess hinted to me she liked me a lot cause i thought the teasing was to purposly make fun of me, but it was to apprently flirt with me.
I do feel i was wrong in doing this but 4 of friends said it was good i did it, cause she hurt my feelings. When i see her tomorrow, should i get her flowers or something? i do have feeling now for this girl no matter how crazy this sounds.
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This sounds like the issue was bad communication on her part and non communication on yours. Give her a chance, it was apparently meant in good nature so you simply misread it and she didn't give you much of a reason to believe it wasn't meant to hurt you. Talk to her work out your diffrences then take it from there, a clean slate if you will. If her attitude changes then you know she didn't mean it. If it doesn't change then you know that you gave her a chance and she blew it. So go for it but make it clear how you feel so that she has some kind of indicator of how her behavior is effecting you say she can have a reasonable chance to change it.0