I love myself because I am me. I see jokes about 'black girls a lot that are mean. For example: weave jokes, skin jokes, personality jokes, etc. I do not consider them funny and ignore people who say them.
I notice other people also try to make me insecure because they are. They are like oh girl, do something with your hair. Do something with my hair? It is my natural curly hair I am not doiny anything with it I do not want too. You can go perm, flat iron or wear weaves. No ones stopping you. Do what you do best and mind your own business.
Not to mention those girls who are ALWAYS obessesed with white guys. He could be a killer and she would not care because he is white and 'cute'. It is also annoying when the person bashes themselve for being African American because of white guys. My hairs nappy, my skins ugly, no one wants me etc. Lo, child please stop... I would not do that over some skin pigments.
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They are usually the butt of the joke, stereotypes, and negativity2