I made the most dumbest decision of my life to send nudes to someone I trusted. We got to an argument and then he send my nudes to his friends in which they all made fun of me. I wanted to report it to the police but my mom says to leave it alone because she doesn't want courts to affect her job performance her and my step dad are going through a tough time financially. My step dad is a school bus driver and since school is ending he's going to be off work. So its not that she's a bad mother because she's the best. How do I deal with it at least emotionally and mentally?
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The first thing of which to be aware is that, because of your age, a complaint to the police about the actions of the boy and his friends may result in you being charged with producing and distributing child pornography. That you took intimate photographs of yourself does not negate the fact that you took and distributed photographs of someone who was under age.
What to do about it? You know by now that it was a monumentally stupid thing to do. A lot of girls make the same mistake. Learn from this experience and do not do it again. If anyone says anything, say that it was a stupid thing to do, that you regret it and you will not do it again. That should give the idiot critics nowhere to go.
The upside of this experience is that the boy and his friends have shown themselves to be scum. He has saved you some time, in that they have crossed themselves off your list of propective partners. Tell all the other girls what happened. That should make the girls avoid them.0