I mean, most guys whom I have seen hang around with a lot of girls, keep dating etc are not even remotely good looking but yeah, cool. Like I have a friend, he might actually be below average looking and is around 5'5'' at best but he has had a lot of gf's who were beautiful and smart. However out here, people complain a lot about not getting girls because of their looks and even the girls seem pretty rude about it, so yeah, i had to ask.
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There are essentially three routes to getting a girl: charm, or looks, or money.
For the looks route, the bar is very high. Women mesmerize men with boobs and butts. Men have no such advantages. I do think that, in order to rely solely on looks and not to have to be charming at all, you would have to be model-level or near-model-level in terms of your looks.
So, that's why you see women give harsh opinions about looks, but at the same time you see women go with men who are average or below average.0