I will be honest, I used to be really obese, I lost all that weight and am in decent shape now (around 15% body fat) but still going. Many girls, some of them really beautiful have called me hot, handsome etc. However, I know when a pic is taken, I look pretty fuckin ugly, even if I take a self video of me, its usually pathetic, like really ugly. I feel really demotivated in life in general especially about working out, I could easily get a six pack in the next 2 years and well, wouldn't brag but even for the ugly fuck I am, my facial aesthetics have changed a lot, like so much people don't recognize me at all. Still, I think I am quite ugly still and its demotivating
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Don't overly focus on your looks. They only get you so far with women.
Think about it: a woman is judging you as a potential partner and father, and other things matter more there: are you fun to be around, are you caring, do you have high social status?
And believe people when they call you hot, handsome, etc. You know how thirsty guys are. Women are unlikely to throw around words like that unless they mean them, or are cornered and don't want to hurt someone's feelings.0