Should I ask for his address?

My crush was just in a serious car accident, and the woman in the epicenter of the accident died in his arms. I want to go comfort him SOOOOO bad right now, but I don't know his address. Is it a bad idea to ask for it? Not from him, maybe his mom or a friend.

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Can you explain your opinion too?
When would be an appropriate time to see him? I. e. X amount of days, or X amount of weeks...

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Most Helpful Guy

  • Give him time to get over it maybe a week.

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What Guys Said 5

  • He's not your boyfriend, or your husband, he's just your crush. He's going to be in shock and/or traumatized by what happened.

    Leave him alone.

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    • Regardless of our current relationship, I still care about him!

    • That's nice, but what you are proposing is not appropriate.

  • just ask him if you can come over because you want too.

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  • Probably a bad idea. A very very bad idea.

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  • That's not a good idea

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    • Can you explain your position?

  • I dont think thats a bad idea :)

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What Girls Said 2

  • Its not a bad idea at all. I think a normal person would understand why you would want to help him. Just be mindful - he might be too shaken up for visitors right now.

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  • Unless you are very good friends then I would say its a bad idea, imagine if someone you didn't know very well randomly turned up at your door - it might make you seem like a stalker or something

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    • I would say we're good friends... At least friends.

    • Still, the fact you don't know where he lives suggests to me that you aren't as close as you think you are. Personally, I know where all my friends live, even ones I'm not particularly close too, so I believe if you had a close enough relationship to just randomly visit his house then you would already know where he lives

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