Do you not put any effort into getting a relationship?

I'd like to be in a relationship but I have no desire to meet people and put effort into getting into a relationship. I can't be the only one who feels this way lol.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • I never started looking around with the idea of getting into a relationship in my mind.
    I met nice girls, avoided the other girls.
    A few times it came to nothing at all
    A few times it came to sex only.
    A few times it came to a relationship.

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What Girls Said 4

  • I guess you could say that about me too. I'm just too lazy for that shit right now.

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  • Lol, your username.. :D

    And no , I think I am different.

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  • I put very little effort into getting a relationship. I like being single and keeping things casual.

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  • I am the same way!

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What Guys Said 4

  • If only it was that easy

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  • I've thought about this at work and realize the time, effort, and work a relationship needs is something I'm not willing to give. Thankfully I don't feel lonely or anything because I have a real problem.

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  • It can happen. Two of my best relationships arose completely out of the blue, as far as I was concerned. They put in all the effort.

    The down side of this was that I didn't get to choose.

    On a slightly more serious note, these experiences lead me to think that women are probably better at choosing us than we are at choosing them.

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  • I want to be in a relationship but I'm shy when it comes to making the first move. The only reason I'm not in one is because I don't make the first move. I've had several girls call me cute and handsome buy I never flirt back really :/

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    • kinda same issue :O you should ask them yourself an be straightforward cuz you will eliminate who doesn't feel the same an find out who is interested, then choose who you like

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