Girls, Why are women so non-understanding about how neglected husbands feel during first years of the kid's childhood?
Whenever a man says he feels neglected because of the first few years of their kid's childhood, the mother says he is being irrational and is immature for being jealous and so on and he has to grow up. When a man complains about the fact that the mother no longer looks at him with the same affection that she did before the child, she calls him jealous and immature
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He IS. How in the hell can he compete with a newborn who needs constant attention, affection, and nurturing? He's a grown ass man who can take care of himself.
I'm not saying that she should neglect him, but there will be times when the baby takes precedence and he needs to understand that. This also means that there will be times when she's too tired to have sex or needs to rest and her loving husband should understand that as well.
Besides, I don't know how he would even feel like he had time to feel neglected if he was helping out with the baby. If he isn't, fuck him.5