Why do people mistake my friendliness for flirting?

Seriously. One girl even got her boyfriend to try and bash me up because I was being friendly.
Why does this happen?
Why do people mistake me being friendly as flirting?
Thanks


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Most Helpful Girl

  • because kindness is so rare these days its mistaken for flirting

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What Girls Said 2

  • maybe your approach is too flirty

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  • People are missing love and manners all together in this world and if you're attractive it makes it worse. People get confused.

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What Guys Said 4

  • Some people are egotripping and think everybody fancies them

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  • I have run into this problem before too--I think it's because I'm naturally engaging and kind--and it can be a bit of a hassle actually.

    Anyway, some people just REALLY can't tell the difference. It's incredible. LOL

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  • This happened multiple times with me, but not the boyfriend bashing and bashing part.

    It is because of the culture 'he talks to me, does he likes me'?'he looks at me, does he like me'?

    These type of OVERTHINKING people do these.

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    • They should learn that, unless a person asks them out for a date, NOTHING STARTS!.

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    • Yeah true.

      Double standards.

      Don't worry, i give you two words to remember, they will help you in life.

      Humor (be funny, be positive & optimistic)
      challenge (letting a girl chase after you).

    • And when girls OVERTHINK, just say to yourself, NEXT.

  • They're attracted to you

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