Is it usually the guy or the girl who is the first to bring up the topic of marriage
- GuyVote A
- GirlVote B
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Really could be either one of those. Depending on what they want and what they see their life becoming in the future.
If the guy feels like he really loves the girl and she's slipping through his fingers he might ask her to marry him just so he could hold onto her - which might not be the smartest move in the long run.
The girl - as a gender - might think about marriage in general, not with anyone specific. If she has a boyfriend she loves, sure she'll think about it... but will she bringing it up - possibly - to see if your ideas and opinions on it match or not. If she's in it for the long haul and your ideas are completely different - it's game over.
So - it all depends on the person.0