I was just at the park like 2 hours ago walking the old trail with a guy i recently met. We were alone and he asked to kiss me, i said not yet. He said when, i told him I didn't want anything serious now. He told me it didn't need to be and put his hand behind my head and tried pulling my face towards him to kiss me. I paniced and just rammed my knee up really hard into his groin without even thinking. He fell down and made horrible sounds. I kept asking if he was ok, and tried helping him up but he couldn't talk right and just stayed curled up in the dirt. I was panicking and just ran away and left him there by himself. Will he be ok? Do i need to go back? What are you supposed to do when you do that to a guy?
Girls, Help Please!!! I kicked a guy in his groin and I dont know what I'm supposed to do?
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he could've tried to rape you. you did the right thing. report him to the cops they'll take care of it.4
Hahaha, he brought that on himself. Genuinely hilarious. Um.. he's fine. That is supposed to hurt really badly. Only use in circumstances where you feel you are going to be hurt or if he's abusing you etc.. a slap in the face would have sufficed as hitting them there can cause damage. Maybe text him and ask? Do you have his number? Maybe facebook. You probably shouldn't have ran away but it's too late now. I find this pretty funny by the way..1
If you go back - bring a guy with you in case he decides to retaliate by beating you up.3
You seem to care about him a lot despite what happened. I think that you were justified for what you did. You told him not to kiss you and yet he completely violated you and tried to force you anyway, you became instinctive and did what you thought was right. Nothing wrong with that. It's nice that you tried to help him at least but he probably couldn't speak properly because he was in a lot of pain, but, overall, I don't think you're at fault at all. Not that you owe him an explanation, but, maybe you could talk to him about what happened. Good luck😊.0
I would have called him an ambulance! From the sounds of his reaction, your knee must have done a number on his nads. But you did the right thing defending yourself, bravo.
How is he now? Have you heard any news? I had a cousin who lost a nut to a very hard kick he received from some crazy chick at a concert.0
Nah, men know women are crazy. Make a little joke about it the next time you see him and make sure he's okay, and then he'll move on. He probably thinks you did it because he tried to kiss you even though you said "not yet". If he's as dumb as we're crazy, he'll think it's his fault.0
he's fine. i wouldn't go back, and i'd stay away from that guy. he tried to force something on you which isn't okay. steer clear from that crazy man.0
Haha no sweetie it was a kick to the groin not a knife. He will survive and hopefully learn a lesson too. He shouldn't have tried to force you. If you do kind of like him apologize and tell him the truth. You panicked because you told him no and he tried to kiss you anyways which really he should then apologize to you for forcing it. Although, until you can trust him (granted if you let someone who doesn't respect the word no back into your life) DO NOT GO ANYWHERE ALONE WITH HIM!1
No. He was assaulting you. and you defended yourself.1
Why should you go back. He got what he deserved. You did not know if he was just for an innocet kiss or a possible rape. You need to act promply in those cases because he is always stronger. You did the right thing.1
well no guy has ever died from it. But I have a feeling that he won't want to see you so I wouldn't even bother going back. In that situation I think an ice pack would be best for the injury since the injury came from a dramatic impact to the groin.1
Good girl, now go kick him again but this time post a selfie while he's lying on the ground in pain.4
You go gurl!!!0
good move! just say no with your knee. More girls should do it!2
You did good, buy pepper spray so you don't panick2
Go report him at the police station. Seriously, you did the right thing1
Omg... I laughed so hard. Girl, he deserved it!0
Well done! He deserved it and if you do go back, he might assault you, so don't.1
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