So I went on a date with a guy who came across as very intelligent, confident etc. He was very pedantic about the fact he wanted to pick me up, and pay for everything, we had some coffee, he then took me to see a movie in which he insisted it probably isn't the best thing to do on a first date, and then we had dinner and a few drinks afterwards. He did the 'Palm reading' where he looked and spoke about my palms- the difference between his and mine. At many times during the night he would cuddle up to me and kiss me on the forehead and hold my hand-this was further into the night as we obviously both felt more comfortable. We talked about everything, he spoke about what he wants in a relationship and that is not looking to fool around. He spoke about what he wants in a girl. We are of different cultures and he said he's always wanted to end up with a Caucasian woman (he's Asian)-he's dated a few. We both freely spoke about his culture and that its great we can both get along great, he mentioned that we both clicked and had a connection and asked if I felt the same. He was very opened about his work and spoke about it for quite sometime. He told me I was very attractive. At one point that sort of alarmed me was that he indirectly spoke about us having a relationship (he's 30, I'm 10 years younger) and that he talked about that if he's going to be in a relationship, he would like the lady to live with him, not sure if he meant before marriage or not.
Anyway all went well, he dropped me home and asked if he could do something tomorrow (today) after work, I told him we should do something tomorrow night. He then called me a few minutes ago saying he was in the area and wanted to pick me up?
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... At one point that sort of alarmed me was that he indirectly spoke about us having a relationship...
With my own wise as an owl Telepathy here, dear, yes, 'Red flag' are being Raised not only on the wall and all but In your own mind.
This could very well be a case, which is moving too fast with its face, that when he gets you in his clutches, gets you where he wants you, he will become this Controlling boyfriend and not really A... Soul mate.
If you want to begin a right beguine 'Right' from the start, be your own straw boss, set the record straight that you just want to go slow with the flow and nurture and nurse This before jumping feet first into unknown waters.
You already can read his hand and you don't have to be this palm reader to see something is not right in Denmark.
Good luck. xx1