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No, I feel like they're a little bitter and projecting on you. You can't help preferences. Psychologists have found that preferences in attraction form as early as 2 or 3. You like what you like and it doesn't matter. I get shit for liking arab guys because I'm hispanic and white but I don't care. It's not self hate. Self hate would be if you were like "black girls are ugly cause they're black" then it would be self hate. But if you just tend to gravitate more to one side than the other, it's fine.
No one says people with brown eyes who date people with colored eyes have self hate. It's just s stupid argument to guilt into fitting a mold.0