He asked me what my views are on having children. I told him that obviously in the future, after you get married the dream is to obviously have a child, but that I'm not one of those girls who live in fantasy world where my main goal in life is to be a mother. I said that I am actually sort of scared at this point to have children, because I think that not enough people take it serious enough as it is a huge commitment. And then there was a little pause and he didn't say anything then he agreed.
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You didn't say anything wrong at all. That is, unless being honest is a bad thing. I appreciate people like yourself, who actually think in terms of reality instead of fantasy and what they "think" they are supposed to do.
Everyone is different, and you should be allowed your own life experiences without worrying about what you think you "should" do. Instead do what you want to do and let things happen as they happen.2