basically if he was looking for something more laid back and suddenly disappeared after realizing that you invested more into him, would you forgive him if he apologized and wanted to remain friends at least?
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No if he just "disappeared" he could easily turn around and do it again. I would not allow him in my life. However if he straight up told you how he was and said that he was scared of things getting too serious and explained that to you by maybe pulling back some that's a whole different situation. But the "disappearance" is a no no1