How to become cold personality wise?

I am very warm and trusting of everyone. and this has lead me to suffering from a lot of people betraying me. How do I become untrusting and cold?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • You shouldn't become untrusting or cold, but instead grow stronger as a person.

    People abuse your trust and kindness not because you are trustworthy or kind, but because they deem you as too weak and thus pick on you. It is in a way a kind of bullying.

    Mental strength will help you to keep your positive and good personality-traits like warmth and trust without being stepped over by others.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Read Robert Greene's 48 Laws of Power (for day to day life) and The Art of Seduction (for relationships)... changed my life - I used to be like you.

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    • Thanks.

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    • KidInk4 No one gives a fuck who you would give a date to.

    • Thanks for having my back lol, Asker, and for the MHO!! :)

      As a fun side note: no problems getting dates either ;)

What Guys Said 5

  • Your real question should be "How do I become a bitter 60-year-old lady living alone with 13 cats."

    Don't change. You will regret it for the rest of your life if you do. I'm not kidding.

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  • Don't ever do that. It's not worth it. People who do that end up even more miserable, but for the rest of their lives.

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  • Watch inside out then watch frozen😋💁

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  • you're born like that

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  • Don't be friendly, just do your own thing and don't make friends.

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