I am very warm and trusting of everyone. and this has lead me to suffering from a lot of people betraying me. How do I become untrusting and cold?
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You shouldn't become untrusting or cold, but instead grow stronger as a person.
People abuse your trust and kindness not because you are trustworthy or kind, but because they deem you as too weak and thus pick on you. It is in a way a kind of bullying.
Mental strength will help you to keep your positive and good personality-traits like warmth and trust without being stepped over by others.0