Even if you're not getting all the attention, the attention that you should be getting of course... is it really what you want?
Most Helpful Girl
It depends. While there are some hot women who desperately feed off of the attention like a mentally deprived, malnourished, sad case, many attractive women can't stand excessive attention. Mind you, any women who's desperate for attention tends to have mommy issues, daddy issues, or serious issues in general.
Throughout my life, I have been told that I'm attractive and I honestly can't stand excessive male attention. Because I am well aware that a majority of male attention is NEGATIVE ATTENTION from sleazy guys who sexually objectify women or don't have a moral compass. The more guys that are into you, the more pigs you have to sort through. It's exhausting.0
Most Helpful Guy
Generally speaking, everyone loves and craves attention, but in different ways.
Even though I'm far from being a "hot" woman, I love getting attention. I love it when people tell me that I look good or that they really like my eyes or how tall I am, but I don't go asking for the attention. Other people want both: they want people to give attention to them and they want/ask attention from other people... there's a difference.
I think getting attention because you're "hot" is a good thing, and it definitely pumps the ego in you; but I think wanting/asking for attention is bad... and unfortunately a lot of people I know personally fall under that category.0