would it be weird of me to message this guy i went on two dates with?
So what happend was that we met over a month a go, and have been on two dates. But on the first date i kissed him (because i found him attractive), but the second date i realised i wasn't as attracted to him as i thought i was, so when he went for a kiss i told him no.
I would guess he's really confused and/or understand that not that into him. and last time we talked was on Friday and he had changed behavior, f. eks. using a long time to reply. so im pretty sure nothing is going to happen. Would it be odd of me to message him "happy birthday"?
Most Helpful Guy
You know him, so send him the bday message. On a separate occasion you need to figure out with him what you both want, and since it's got nothing to do with his birthday, you shouldn't be conflating a birthday message with any other context (relationship)
If you dont know what you want with him, then send him a message saying that you want to talk about you and him.
But dont do it on his birthday unless you plan on something positive i. e. giving him a chance at a relationship with you - it would make his birthday special if that was what you wanted to do.0
Most Helpful Girl
yes you can. it's not odd. though the guy would have been hurt. When you send the message and he reads it, he would feel confused and feel worse. Imagine what he could have thought when you rejected his advances without even telling why. I think you should talk with him if you wanted to at least stay friends.0