You see it every day girl comes out I like tall guys and to me thats fine and dandy she can like whatever she wants but she's considered empowered. I said I don't like fat girls, I don't nesesarily bully them or Am mean to them I just would never date one because mayority of us males fine them unatractive. Shouldn't this double standart be gone with "feminism"
Guys girls opinions on this. Purely objective tho
Most Helpful Girl
Any time you call anything fat, people get offended even if its absolutely true. I had a conversation about this the other day in that, why is it okay to call someone skinny if they are like 5'5 and weight 110 lbs, but call someone 5'5 who weighs 200 lbs, and suddenly you're a bad person. You like what you like and rather then get hung up on people thinking or calling you a bully (obviously if you're bullying that's something else), but literally at this point, I'm like okay, tell me the definition of fat. Now, what is your argument with what I said.4
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Most Helpful Guy
Umm, maybe it is because by society standards we as men aren't allowed to have them? We're supposed to accept any girl that comes our way. I mean it doesn't matter if she stinks, has messed up teeth, a bad body, ugly, a loudmouth with a bad hairdo, fat, bad skin etc.
If we don't #date a girl because of those reasons listed above we'll automatically be called #gay and or #shamed for it, right? And usually it's by the girls who fit those bills (looks wise). i1127.photobucket.com/.../ezgif.com-add-text.gif
Heck, girls will even #help 1 another out though via shaming tactics like "you aren't a #real man since you wouldn't look past that little flaw of hers" or "come on __ you know you could have at least given her a chance. I mean just because she's fat doesn't mean she isn't a great person".
Yet those same very girls will #reject a guy over his bad clothes -_-. Not only that but other girls will #egg them on via saying things like "girl I know that' I wouldn't dare date a guy who couldn't dress" yet I thought we were the so called shallows 1;s LOL
Basically, society seems to like to protect women's feelings while leaving ours out on an island (figuratively speaking) as if we're robots.2