I must go anon for this in case he finds it.
But my father used to financially abuse my mother, he also used to hit her, he demanded she cook him food even when she had cancer and had months to live. Also, she had a broken arm and she was still cooking for him. Furthermore, he used to belittle her and tell her off and force her to go to church all the time.
Now, he claims he loved my mother but yet. He has never visited her grave, he bearly wept at her funeral and was trying to move onto another woman within 1 week after she died.
Did he ever love her?
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In my opinion, no. I don't think that you can abuse your partner and show them so much disrespect and truly love them. I can believe that he thinks he loved her, but I don't think that he actually could if he treated her so badly. Of course, no one is going to be able to give you a 100% sure answer, because no one can know.0