You feel a strong connection to them
How about if you guy's break up and you don't find anyone after him because your in love with him and that's unusual to you
How does he feel about you though - The same?
I don't know if it's the same but he likes me I believe. I mean every time we hang out it feels like we're a couple.
Well maybe time for a talk
I asked him last time to get back together and he said I don't want to get back together. So I took it as maybe later and just left him alone. Now I see the changes in the way he's acting towards me so I'm wondering but kinda was hoping he will say something this time
Yeah It is best to wait and see if he makes any move because he did say no when you pressed him before
Yeah but now I do see changes in him. He has made a lot of moves towards me I just can't get him to hang out with me.
Just take your time and let him take the lead - If you force it, you will ruin any chances you had
He is not taking the lead though because I haven't seen or heard from him in a week. Do you think I did something wrong for him not to ask me to hang out anymore?
It is very hard to say without knowing for sure what is going on inside his head - He has said no yet you think he is acting a certain way around - I think it is something you can only work out between yourselves - No third party would be able to tell you an answer - I hope it works out for you.
If you like each other.
Have an opinion?
There are no "signs". You like eachother, you go on dates, you become a couple, you a) end up married or b) break up. That is all.
How about if you guy's break up bUT you don't find anyone after him and that's unusual for you?
No. Learn to love yourself. Dont fill your voids with other humans. If you were meant to be then youd be together, not broken up. Dont force things because there is nothing better around at this moment. Being lonely is good, it teaches you about yourself.
I never said I was lonely and I'm fine being by myself and I never said there wasn't anyone better around, I was just wondering
You said you didn't move on right away and thats strange for you, im just making an observation, so dont take offense but thats usually a sign that someone is not good at being alone. It sounds like you really love this guy, hopefully no one cheated and he has feelings for you as well, but if that were the case like i said initially, you would probably be together still or back together already. Best of luck.
No one cheated and I think he's finally starting to come around. I don't mean move on right away I just meant by now because it has been months. Believe Me I Can Stay WITH out A Man with no problem.
Good luck to you i hope it works out.
So is it a sign or not then or am I crazy to think this way?
Personally i think you are crazy. I dont wait for signs or for anyone because i see my worth and what i bring to the table and life is too short to include those who dont recognize that from the get go. Take it or leave it is my philosophy and the only sign i need is if my phone is ringing or if it isn't. And if it hasn't been ringing in a while then change your ringtone and keeps your eyes on the horizon for the next adventure. Thats just me though and thats the only advice i have for you.
Yes life is short and when when you find the one you think your going to give up on them
Listen im in a relationship with an amazing guy. Im ready to marry him. he's my best friend. I thought this about the last guy i dated as well. Turns out that he didn't feel that way as well. We broke up and i walked away and many many months later i met the man of my dreams. When its the right person you aren't looking for signs or reasons to keep holding on. You just know because they are right next to you everyday loving you and not giving up when things get tough and i have learned that being in a truly good relationship over the past year. If you are broken up there is a key word there, BROKEN. One or both of you gave up or had life circumstances that made it so you stopped holding on to what you guys had. First of all, if a man wants to be with you, he makes it happen at all costs. Just because you feel he's the one doesn't mean he feels the same way about you. Dont hurt yourself more by holding on to this.
I also want to make it clear that im not interested in commenting further. I have given you my opinion and thats all i can do. Good luck.