I already don't really want to post this simply because I'm so used to people yelling at me for being an attention seeker if I say anything on this matter. But I really just need some reassurances from people. Even though it's summer the people who have made it their goal to make my life miserable always seem to find me. As expected my depression has grown quite a bit because of it. They make fun of mainly my scars, personality, and my eyes because they are two different shades of brown. And I know that I'm definitely not the prettiest girl ever, not by far. I just hate that they constantly have to point that out and remind me of it. I'll skip over the rest of the details, but I mainly just need some reasons to not add more scars to my arms or even go a step further.
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Let me get this straight.
1. Your mood depends on what people say. So if we today say "you're beautiful" you would feel great and if we tomorrow say "you're ugly" you would feel bad?
The trick is to find yourself beautiful and to find happiness & confidence in life. Find things you are good at and gain confidence from that. Nobody can control you then.
2. People are not focused on you. They always live for "me, myself and I". And so should you. They may be mean to you but it not their goal to do that.
3. Let other talk whatever they want about your eyes and other features (I actually find it interesting cause it makes you unique). A friend of mine was her whole life taller than everybody and considered ugly. People made fun of her. Later she became a model that did photoshoots all over the world and now has more money than all the people that laughed at her combined. Look at people like Muhammad Ali, Madonna, Stevie Wonder, Michael Jackson, Prince, Mae West, Cher. They are all unique. Just be unique because the world is looking for unique people... but stop scaring yourself!!!2