There was this guy who was annoying me and kept trying to have conversations with me, and I finally told him to leave me alone because he was annoying me. Well he responds with a long terribly hurtful comment, probably to worst thing anyone has ever said to me, and it made me cry. I am not sure how I should react to it. Do I respond to his comment? Or just say nothing back? I hate letting him feel like he is able to do that to me.
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You are definitely allowed to feel whatever you are feeling about the comment. In this situation because you rejected him, my guess is, it was much easier for him to lash out at you so that it would make him feel like he has the upper hand in the situation and not like you just rejected him which you are definitely well within your rights to do. Obviously he has proved the very reasons why you found him annoying, so just forget about him and move on to the company of people you know love and support you. Totally sucks to hear the negative, but again, he was probably trying to protect his own ego by lashing out at you to try and feel better about himself.0