Do you specifically go for someone because they are a different ethnicity then you or is personality and psychical attraction always the main factor?
I like girls of all backgrounds and most appearences but a crappy attitude won't score them a date with me.
I feel like some people just go for a person based on their ethnic background and appearence alone without trying to see if they have a good personality to go with it.
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So my dream guy would be tanned with darker hair and light eyes B-U-T I find myself attracted to other kinds of men. Just like guys can say they love blondes and have a brunette girlfriend, I recognize a type I find attractive but I'd totally be ok if I wound up with a guy who was the complete opposite.
I think when I get to know a guy he becomes better looking over time... I've met guys who I didn't think much of how they look, I mean, they were decent, healthy looking men and as we became friends and they suddenly became very handsome to me. Although it's important there's some sort of initial physical attraction, you can't go by personality alone... People with awesome personalities just automatically become more attractive. And obviously if someone has a bad personality it doesn't matter if he's the hottest guy on the planet, I wouldn't be able to stand him.
I guess the flaw with that is to get to know someone's personality takes time and some people may not have the patience or be willing to give that person a chance.
Regarding ethnicity I don't have a preference really... There's a lot of ethnicity s I haven't come across so I would be ignorant to have a preference.