I'am a very nice person but this person kept bugging me for 3 years. So i had enough of his crap. He started to talk shit to me when i was with my girlfriend. So then i got in his face cause he kept saying i was "too nice" and was taking my kindness for weakness. Well long story short. I got so mad to a point my girlfriend never saw me that mad and kept telling me stop and that stuff then when i turned back she backed off cause she got scared when she looked at me. I did what i had to do.
In the car my girlfriend kept saying she was scared of me and she didn't want to hangout anymore and wanted to go home :( She began to cry for no reason in the car and I don't know why. Is it cause i got mad to the point that she never saw me like that? I'am a big guy and she is much smaller than me so I don't know if that had anything to do with. She keeps telling i should of been the bigger man in the car, What can i do to make her feel better? Was what i did wrong?
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Dude, just tell her you did what you were supposed to do. And before people come here with all of that "a real man doesn't start fights" bullshit, I'll just say this - you did what a real man would have done. You proved that you can be nice but that that niceness has it's limits. Kudos, dude.
As for your girlfriend, I think it'll pass. She's just emotional because she hasn't seen you like that. by the way, women may instinctively like a man who protects his or her pride, so who knows what she'll do about it later iykwim0