I especially have the girls on here in mind.
I jsut feel like more fotne than not, the person is so blatently obviocusly attractive, but they say they need to be thinner or someone said they were ugly. Whcih do you think happens MORE OFTEN, fishing for compliments or legitimetly wondering?
- I think these people know they are attractive and are just fishing for answers70% (16)57% (8)65% (24)Vote
- I think more often than not, they actually have self image issues and actually want opinions/support.30% (7)43% (6)35% (13)Vote
Most Helpful Girl
It really depends.
Someones perception of themselves can be completely different than the way we view them.
"People are their own worse critics".
This is true.
People have a way of fixating on flaws that no one else would have noticed if not mentioned.
This person has very low self esteem and refuses to believe they are even the slightest bit of attractive.
Sadly, nothing you say will make this person think otherwise.
He / she has a lot of internal work to do in order to be confident.
This person is truly suffering from low self esteem despite their attractive appearance.
On the other hand,
It's clear to see when someone who is attractive (even in their own eyes) is fishing for compliments.
They usually say a whole lot of sad things about themselves.
But the photos they post are usually sexually explicit or vulgar.
It's very to see why this person is posting.
They want a lot of attention and to boost their ego.
This person is generally conceited but claims otherwise.
If this person doesn't have much attention in their personal lives they usually find other ways to get it.
They thrive off of it.3
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Most Helpful Guy
just fishing for answers.0