Its like, when a girl says she finds a particular guy hot or he is the best looking guy in the world or sth, Its just a clear implication that the guy is better than me and I feel so insecure and have this competitive streak in me. I don't know why the fuck this happens. Damn, my mom said she loved tom cruise when she was young and now i hate him lol. How do i remove these feelings of malice and jealousy
Most Helpful Girl
You need to get some confidence.0
Most Helpful Guy
Human tendency to compare what we have with what others have. This happens because you are not satisfied with what you have.
Nxt time you feel like this, try admiring that person in your head.
for eg;- your mom said she loved tom cruise , tell yourself "Ya , tom cruise is handsome, he got a toned jaw, gorgeous eyes, fit body" If you have problem doing this , say it out loud.
What you have been doing till now is the same, you were admiring him in your head, but in a demeaning way to yourself. like " He got a more toned jaw than me, he has more beautiful eyes than me,. He is more handsome than me. "
Once you get rid of this habit, you'll feel very light.0