You took revenge on that person but you felt bad too because it that makes you a bad person! What are your thoughts?
- Yes, I felt horrible after taking revenge on someone23% (3)12% (1)19% (4)Vote
- No, they deserved it!54% (7)62% (5)57% (12)Vote
- Other (Explain)23% (3)26% (2)24% (5)Vote
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I have honestly never "taken revenge" on anyone... Ever.
You see.. For my many, MANY flaws, I'm learning that this is a quality that less people share with me than what I thought in my youth. 2 wrongs don't make a right. I see it all of the time. Someone will cheat on their partner or abuse them in some shape or form or simply just not want to be with them anymore. The "hurt" person will look for "revenge" by doing things like posting photos of them on the internet or telling others about their infidelities or WHATEVER. This will ultimately come back to haunt you. You could literally ruin someone's life just because you felt you were mistreated. That's why I ALWAYS take my lumps if I get hurt for whatever reason and walk away from the situation.
I know people who have posted nudes of their ex's for revenge, told coworkers what a "slut" they were, told their boss that they were stealing, told their partner that they were cheating. The thing is, NONE of this will make you feel any better as a person. The best (and only) thing you can do when being hurt in a legal situation is to learn from it. Period. Learn from your mistake and do your best not to let it happen again. Revenge is not honorable. It is childish.1