I won't date someone unless I can see myself marrying them.
- Yes, it's extremeVote A
- Nah, it's fineVote B
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I don't bother dating a guy if I can't imagine myself marrying him either. That doesn't mean just because I continue seeing someone that I think I am GOING to marry them - just that they have the potential to be "Mr. Right". Eventually, if I start to feel like he is not, then I will not continue wasting either of our time. For me, the whole point in getting into a relationship is to find my life partner - the person I want to build a life with and grow old with. If I can't see myself doing that with a guy, there's no point in dating him at all. If I just want to enjoy a guy's company in the short term, then I'll be FWB's with him.2