My girlfriend invited her parents and sister to stay in MY house with us for a couple weeks. She didn't ask my permission. She didn't tell me about it.
Without asking me if i was ok with it:
-She gave up our room to her parents.
-She said she and her sister would be sharing the first guest room, and i would be alone in the 3rd guest room
I talked to her about this and she said that this is how things are going to be and that her decision is final.
Is what she is doing unfair?
It is MY house. not hers.
- YesVote A
- NoVote B
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Depends on how much you love her & want to be with her.
I would kick her & her family to the curb, because its my house & I make the rules. She should have asked you first.
But in some cultures, it is a courtesy to give up your room to the parents out of respect because naturally its the bigger room. Relationships are about compromise & respect.
This chick showed neither when she moved her family in without first talking to you. Had there been a discussion first you wouldn't be as angry.
Look at it this way, if she behaves this way now, how will marriage be?0