I've seen the way my brother has always lied to woman to get them in bed by saying he loves them and what not and I always pitied him. Then I thought about it and I also lie to them too. It started out as just saying they were beautiful when I didn't find them attractive to reassure them and I found it easier to say things I didn't mean. I went through heart break and when she came back asking to be taken back I lied while I looked her in the eyes "I never loved you, you meant nothing" which I still regret to this day. Since that day I've notices... lying to woman comes almost like a second nature and although it make them happy how bad is it really? To tell a girl that's lonely that you love them? Approach an unattractive girl at a bar or party and tell them you couldn't help but keep looking at her... to make her happy. Seems like I do it to make some happy or sleep with some like 70/30 happy/sleep while my brother doe it just to sleep with them. Am I cursed with my brother'a bad trait?
Most Helpful Girl
Yes, it's so wrong. You build up a girls hopes, use her, then dump her. Eventually your reputation as a heart breaker will become common knowledge, then it will be impossible for you to find a lady. If ever you do find Miss Right, she will turn the tables and lead you on and then dump you.
However, until that hapens, I doubt that you will change, no matter what we say here!1
Most Helpful Guy
Well guys have to lie to get women. That's how it goes. Let's look at it this way, me, who was always truthful and honest got nothing vs my friend who could somehow lie his way into a girls pants. Words are powerful things if wielded correctly.0