Can a cold hearted rejection change you as a person?


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Most Helpful Girl

  • it could if u let it defeat u. u could also use it to become even better, stronger and open hearted.

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Most Helpful Guy

  • not always... though it might have some negative effect on u, but this has to do wid how sensitive u r.

    i mean a sensitive person might feel more hurt, or even feel depressed in some cases after a cold-hearted rejection.

    on da other hand if da person's more thick-skinned it might boost his confidence and take any rejection as a joke

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What Girls Said 3

  • No. You can't take rejections personally because they're not personal. Not everyone is going to like you just because you like them. That's common sense

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  • multiple ones can i believe

    but the opposite can heal

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  • Only if you allow it to change you. Rejection is very hurtful, but in life , pain is inevitable... suffering is optional. Life is 10% of what happens to you and 90% of how you respond to it. So it isn't what happens to you which hurts you... it is the quality of your own thoughts which causes the pain.

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What Guys Said 6

  • A cold hearted rejection makes you move on while false hopes keep you tied in place.
    What do you prefer?

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  • Of course, it can, though not in the sense of forcing you to change. You can change because of your thought processes in regard of it, if that is what you mean.

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  • Not as a person, but I would think it can certainly change the way you think about relationships and change the way you behave. so, I guess.

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  • Oh yeah. Depending how you take it it could make you stronger, smarter, cold, or bitter.

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  • no, getting rejected is funny, although i rarely ever hit on a girl

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  • Depends on if it's heartless rejection !! That would b yes... Change is always better

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