I mean even if you are average looking. Do you have the confidence to come up to me and hit on me? Please be honest... Are you a Bold and Straight foward Men? Or a Shy one?
Guys, Are you a confident Man?
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In all honesty, no. I've been let down and hurt by girls for years and I've always blamed my looks. I'm 19 and still have a baby face. I remember May last year I was with some friends and these random girls were calling my friends good looking and going mad over them and I was there wondering why I never got the attention..
We later bumped into them again and one girl pointed and said "It's those fit lads again" and then they just saw it was me and the other girl went "He's not one of the fit ones." And walked on..
Anyway I am with a girl now and have to say, I'm a bit more confident now than I was at the beginning of the relationship but still not 100% there yet.
I probably would have the confidence to come up to you and talk to you but anything more than that I'd probably lack it1
(reads question carefully)
"Please be honest"
"Do you have the CONFIDENCE TO come up to me and hit on me?"
Yes, I have the CONFIDENCE TO come up to you and "talk" to you. That doesn't mean I will, and it also doesn't mean I want to. But yes, I have the CONFIDENCE TO do those things.1
I used to be confident until i found out girls didn't find me attractive. I can't take rejection and if i were to look at a girl who i find attractive i'd try to make sure she didn't see and if she did then i'd move away from her pretending i was in a hurry. The only way for me to be confident is if girls would tell me that i'm handsome over the internet. If only it was real. I often look at myself in the mirror feeling disgusted over myself. So i'l tend to compare myself to guys who are handsome imagining i was one of those guys. I can't understand how confidece can make me attractive when you just can't look past someones apperance.2
I don't even know how to flirt or anything of that nature. I'm too shy. But most guys do know and will if there is something about you that they like.1
Normally am shy. But when I do muster up the energy I can be one of the most bold and straight forward person. Mostly because my disdain for 'running around' my feelings towards another. I tell it how it is and if they don't like it, I'll just declare loudly, "NEXT!" and move on.1
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I'm an honest straight forward man in my intention.
But when you say ''Bold'', I still have minor anxiety for my performance lol1
If I really desire to come up and talk to you, I will; but my experience tells me that most women don't want to be approached while going about their day, so I usually don't come up and talk to you unless you've made it clear that you want me to.1
I can't afford to be shy. Or else i can't build up my clientele at the hair salon or get good tips as a bartender.
In fact the service industry further boosts my confidence.1
Painfully shy, but I always the courage to approach someone when I wan to.. My shyness doesn't stop me.1
I am confident and would go up to a lady and hit on her.1
"Guys, Are you a confident Man?"
I'm confident enough to not care. :D2
I am shy sometimes, afraid of rejections1
I can come up and start talking, but not confident to flirt straight away.1
Yes, but most men these days aren't. Thank you, feminism.1
Yes I would1
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