I have been hanging out with a guy friend quite a lot, and we have fun togheter. We go to restaurants togheter and stuff... but im a bit worried that people might think we're dating or something like that.
So if you see a girl at school or something like that hanging out with a guy, how often do you assume they are more then friends?
Most Helpful Guy
well I had this BFF that had a boyfriend for lots of years. We would always spend time together: going in breaks or eating together, going to get ice cream and stuff. This girl that knew both of us once said to us: how you two standing there like lovers.
It might seem ok to you, but others might get a different view on your "relationship"
Also there's this girl that I now like, but in the beginning I wasn't even thinking of her, because she had this guy around her all day and I thought they are together.
After 4 months that I realized they might not be together, but still they act strange: going everywhere the other goes (the exceptions are rare), sleeping in the same bed and even stranger: cuddling. I honestly think they even bang each other. Which is keeping me from trying to date that girl.0
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Most Helpful Girl
iv told myself numerous times not to assume anything unless it's blatantly obvious, so i like to go with that point of view.
i mean it really isn't fair to just assume every girl and guy hanging out are dating, like no other kind of relationship is possible -.-0