So I found out my girlfriend had a crush, or maybe still has a crush on a guy. He is like Calvin Klein model good looking. He confessed his feelings for her before I did. But apparently she rejected him. I don't know why. I think she said because she was with me.
But if she has a crush on him and if he likes her shouldn't I give them a chance together? I feel selfish and bad if she would be more happy with him rather then me.
I don't know why she loves me. Especially over this guy.
He is like every girls dream guy and I'm the guy girls settle for 40 years later when they can't find someone.
I feel bad if she likes me over him because he is better than I am in most likely every way.
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I'm so sorry you feel that way.
But here's the thing about crushes, usually they are solely based on appearances with a projected personality on top. Your girl obviously recognized that, and also figured out that personality wise he and her weren't compatible.
But this isn't about your girl. She already made her choice. She had the option of dating this guy and she chose not to. Unless you believe her to have an inability to make rational or even emotionally intelligent decisions, i don't see what your concern is?
If you don't feel good enough, you need to work on it. Work on you, cause the guilt is just self loathing.0