Let's say you're dating someone. They are an RA at their college. You're at your own college. Their birthday is coming up. You planned to visit them in a couple days to celebrate their birthday over the weekend.
The morning two days before you're supposed to leave to visit them, you woke up to news that one of their fellow RA's and close friends (one person) was found dead on their campus. Authorities/The University hasn't released the details of COD, just that his/her family has been notified and that classes were canceled for the day.
Your SO is taking it rather hard.
What would you do?
Do you cancel the visit seeing as it might be a bad time and your SO may not be in the most festive of moods?
Do you go and cancel the birthday dinner plans? Just go for morale support?
Do you go and ignore the recent events and focus on making sure your SO has a great birthday weekend?
- Cancel the visit0% (0)14% (1)5% (1)Vote
- Go and cancel the birthday dinner plans69% (9)43% (3)60% (12)Vote
- Go and ignore the recent events and focus on making sure your SO has a great birthday weekend15% (2)29% (2)20% (4)Vote
- I am an iguana16% (2)14% (1)15% (3)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
Forget poll options and just talk to him - Tell him it is his decision how you play it - He might want your company but for a quiet reflective weekend or have a dinner to take his mind off things - I am 99% sure he will want you there but what for I don't know.0
Most Helpful Girl
Wow. I'm so sorry for the both of you, Alex.0