Seriously, do people not get the irony of incessantly complaining about incessant complaints? I see five takes a day either bashing nice guys or telling them how to change up their act... Um... isn't this exactly what women say they do? There's literally a stigma these days to being called nice, what the shit? Seriously, for all the complaints about nice guys, I see just as many women just forming a massive circlejerk about how evil they are on the Internet as I do nice guys partaking in a circlejerk whining about their luck with women.
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Women like jerks. Bash nice guys. Reach 30's and ask "where are all the nice guys" ?
Anyway women have this twisted view that if a man is being nice and ask to appreciated by her and not taken for granted that he is somehow being deceptive in trying to win a woman's affection for being nice.
In short women expect men to do stuff for them and be used as a utility. The truth is being "nice" is an insult today if your a man.2