I like this guy but I always have doubts about making a move because he doesn't seem like someone I would be into. Yet I still have feelings for him and I can't get rid of them. I'm seeing potential red flags yet they don't drive me away. Is this normal?
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Yes, and it was the worst mistake I have ever made. I married her and she ended up trying to kill me with a lamp because I left the door unlocked when I went to work. She said that I did it on purpose so that someone would come in and kill her (and no I never laid a hand on her so it was self-deference. I was taught growing up only jerks hit women and never have)
Did I see red flags, Absolutely. Even my family saw red flags and tried to warn me. However, I ignored them all as I loved her. Big mistake.
As for you, if your already seeing red flags, what make you think it's going to get better if you end up in a relationship with him? While people can change, it's a long hard process, so unless you plan to spend a lot of time in therapy, I say try and move on.0
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