Perhaps it seems people are boring to you on the surface, but there is so much more to this problem than this. You love conversation, you love to see smiles on peoples' face, you love to be intellectually intriguing. However this is so often not the type of interaction you have with people. You really detest small talk, rather you like to probe further, glimpse at people's ambitions, see what they true think about, tackle powerful questions that arise in every day life. However you so often feel people give up on trying to connect, they don't seem to want to engage you. They are rushed seeking a forever more prominent future and neglecting the current moment. Eager to head out to do but never seemingly ready to explore, explore the minds of others.
This is how I am feeling now.
How bout you?
Most Helpful Girl
I'm probably quite a boring person because I don't like socializing all that much :/ . Most people I just find quite draining to be around, even if they're really nice. It's not their fault at all.
There are very few people I've had a real connection with.
At the moment I have this one really close guy friend who I trust absolutely, and who trusts me and talks to me about deep stuff, and that makes me feel so special. Unfortunately he doesn't want our relationship to be anything more, and he lives a really long way from me :( (although we're closer while we're both at university)0
Most Helpful Guy
I've only found a few people who I would want to hang out with as much as possible. Most people bore me after a while. I tend to like most people though.
I love to talk about interesting stuff, but some people talk about the same old bullshit all the fucking time, and it's not engaging, and I wanna kill myself.
But my best friend, my crush, and perhaps these two new friends I've made here... well, I could talk to them for hours, I imagine.
Unfortunately, for some reason, people don't wanna go sit on a park bench and shoot the shit and people watch for hours. I would love that with the people I mentioned above. Actually, with anyone that I know.0