I met a guy on a backpacking trip, we talked for overnight. It was great and I never felt the chemistry and connection with other guy I ever met before. And we were strangers. Anyway, I didn't ask his contact and I left before him. I regret it a lot now. I think about him like a lot afterward (more of remember), until now which almost a month after we met. I tried searching for him in Social Media but I didn't find him. And lately I could get really frustrated because I can't find him and sometimes it makes me cry. what is wrong with me? Why can't I get over him? Why am I missing him so much? is there anyway to forget, I already make myself busy and trying to meet other guys but he kinds of pops into my head and I find myself comparing him and other guys.
Fyi. I'm not a type who missed people. I don't even miss my parents. or my Bestfriends. usually when I met This is like the first time I miss someone so much and I miss talking to him.
Most Helpful Guy
Do you believe in magnets? Sometimes we get the thought of what if. You got struck by the love bug or rather Cupid shot you with an arrow. So now it will take time to recover and be back to yourself again. It seems that maybe you never received this kind of attention and you felt a strong connection to him. It would have been best you had got some contact info from him. Live and learn.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Because your ego is in the way.
Let’s face it, no one likes the idea of rejection. Your motivation for wanting him back may be more about soothing a bruised ego. If you believe that getting him back will validate you in some way then it may be a self esteem issue that needs to be addressed.