so this guy in my class keeps saying things, and im unsure if he means them or not.
He will say things likes " dont worry, you're the only beautiful here", or today he said " you're a sexbomb", he has also said "im attracted to beautiful things, thats why i was attracted to you", the list goes on actually. and just giving me a lot of compliments on my looks, and i never know if he is just joking because he says it in playful way.
I normally just respond by lauging it away or not really saying anything...
So how do i deal with this? just ignor it
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Don't mistake someone's flattery or interest, to mean he value's you. It's possible to be attracted to someone, want them just for sex, be interested in them or curious... and NOT really CARE about them or value them as a person.
A guy who really cares about you, will make you feel like more than just a pretty face and his actions will show that he actually values you, your opinions and your life.
Too often, girls mistake a guys flattery or interest to mean he must really like them or love them; then when the relationship goes sour, they wonder what happened. What happened, is that he was never serious to begin with.
If a guy truly cares about you, you WILL know. There won't be mixed signals or unanswered questions. There is nothing you need to "do" on your end except maybe be careful of his true intentions and be smart about which guys you allow to toy with your emotions.0