Most Helpful Girl
God works in mysterious ways. first, in order not to be lonely, u need to remove yourself from the situation of loneliness.
then you reflect and pray. you need to make an effort to rid yourself of this problem. you have to open your heart to listening to God, whether its through the bible or someone else.
if God doesn't answer u straight away, He ain't ignoring u. There r 4 potential answers. Yes, No, Not Now, or I have something better in mind. trust in his timing and have faith, but u must... MUST be willing to take steps yourself also.0
Most Helpful Guy
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First of all, i would like to say something to all those who came on here and insulted the asker based on his beliefs. It is against my religion to mistreat you based on your beliefs and i expect that you do the same. You came on to this post, not because you thought you were going to 'convert' him (because that just doesn't happen unless your belief is already faulty), with the sole purpose of insult him and being rude, crude, and all around socially ignorant. YOU are the reason there is a hatred for those who do not believe in God (s).
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A couple of months ago i was probably feeling the same way you feel, if not worse. Not only was i a kid who had not sense when it came to talking to women, but i was also horrendous at making friends and many people just thought i was kind of odd. However, im not here to talk to you about women, nor friends Im here to talk to you about your relationship with God of whom i assume you are referring to an Abrahamic god, more specifically Christian.
So to start off, the previously mentioned time was prior to my taking up of Christianity after losing my way for a number of years. But to gain full perspective we need to go farther back, to when i was born and more importantly where i was born. I was born in Belgium and while i was still a child my family and i ventured through Europe and, according to my estimation, visited at least 52% of all european countries. Initially this would sound like a blessing, but when you realize that i was only 4 years and barely had a functioning mind, let alone a memory, when this all happened it starts to take on a different perspective. When i was around 5 years of age we moved to the states but it wasn't until the age of 10 or 12 that i started to slide into a deep state of depression. The impact that not knowing what your birth place looked like except for the few haunting memories that creep into your dreams is known by few and hard to relate to. Either way that constant area of sadness plus my poor status in the elementary school hierarchy led me to a few rash and ignorant prayers. I would close my eyes at night and i would pray for things like 'a trip to Belgium' or 'to become really cool' and, obviously, they would not be delivered into my hands. After a few years of this i abandoned Christianity and, for a year or two, experimented with Buddhist theories and teaching. However i still could not find any form of peace from these0