Accepting and feeling comfortable with how I look?

I suffer from low self esteem which obviously makes it difficult for me to feel good about how I look. I used to be chubby but since losing weight everyone says I'm handsome all of a sudden, Girls give me looks and are more interested in me, everyone seems nicer with me now. Sometimes girls say they can't believe I don't have a girlfriend but in reality I'm too scared to go for the girls I like as I fear they would reject me. I don't see it though, I don't think I'm ugly anymore but I don't even feel average, I wanna feel at least okay with my looks. Any advice on feeling better about my looks as they stand, I already work out so you don't need to suggest that.

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  • " I used to be chubby but since losing weight everyone says I'm handsome all of a sudden"

    ^i kow how u feel about since i used to be fat as well... and i get some compliments here and there now... anyway wot u should understand's... it belongs to da PAST and u r thin now... ;)

    "Sometimes girls say they can't believe I don't have a girlfriend"

    ^guess it's a good compliment... it means u r too handsome to be single... and dat's y they say it u know...

    " but in reality I'm too scared to go for the girls I like as I fear they would reject me. I don't see it though, I don't think I'm ugly anymore but I don't even feel average, I wanna feel at least okay with my looks. "

    ^so u believe when they compliment u they don't mean it?

    "Any advice on feeling better about my looks as they stand, I already work out so you don't need to suggest that."

    ^then u should realise... all those compliments cannot be a coincidence... ;)

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    • Yeah I don't believe their compliments are genuine.

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    • Yeah I just don't think any girl would like me even now I'm slim

    • wrong... u must realise they don't lie in my opinion... ;)

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