Whats the difference? And how can I tell if I actually am deeply in love or am obsessed?
Most Helpful Guy
To be obsessed you already need to be in love haha1
Most Helpful Girl
An obsession is harmful, either to just you or both you and him. You don't respect the other person's privacy, you don't leave them alone, you constantly think about ways to win them over either by manipulation or by doing it forcefully. You become sickly jealous. You over-analyze every single thing they do. Everything revolves around them.
But essentially an obsession is harmful, infatuation is not.1