There's this girl at my school. We are both black. There are a lot of black kids at my school so naturally I have a lot of black friends. I am going to hang out with a friend and I asked her if she wanted to come with me to his house. She told me she's really bored and had nothing to do. She said yeah i want to go And then she asked me what kind of guy is he. I said he's a sophomore and on the soccer team and she said I mean what kind of guy is he black white, hispanic? And I said he's black. A few minutes later she said I might actually have something else planned tomorrow. Then she asked me why are all my friends black. There are more white people at our school so why don't I ever see you with white friends?
i do have white friends but she has way more white guy friends than me. She loves taking pics with white guys.. And showing them to me. So I was like "well you don't have to go if you don't want to"
I definitely have my opinions about this but what do you think?
- She's racistVote A
- She's not racistVote B
- OtherVote C
Most Helpful Guy
i'd say she may be a bit of a self-hating black person and she assumes her value as a person is heightened because she can associate with white people. she may just not like black guys (and she may have reasons) but to sort of disqualify being around black men in general would suggest that she has a prejudice towards them0
Most Helpful Girl
I think she might be racist towards black guys because she is friends with you. I can see why some people think it's a matter of preference but in this situation all you did was invite her to hangout at a guys house. It's not like you were trying to set them up with each other. I have no problem with her hanging out with white guys or having more white friends but to dismiss someone based on color and gender is wrong.0