Okay, so the other day my mom and her friend were talking, they said men can have 4 addictions: smoke, drink, sex or drugs (something stronger than alcohol and cigarettes).
Out of those 4. Which is the best one? With this I mean which is the less harmful?
I'll go with smoke. I think it doesn't hurt anyone but yourself.
Being alcoholic causes violence, same with drugs, and being promiscuous is harmful because of std's.
My mom's ex said out of those 3, the best was promiscuity.
- Smoke14% (4)5% (2)9% (6)Vote
- Drink3% (1)0% (0)1% (1)Vote
- Sex45% (13)62% (24)54% (37)Vote
- Drugs0% (0)13% (5)7% (5)Vote
- Meh, gimme the results bish21% (6)8% (3)13% (9)Vote
- Legalize it and don't criticize it (I'm listening to that song right now XD)0% (0)3% (1)1% (1)Vote
- And because I always do it: an option that is offensive to me. "goddamn Amy, such a stupid question, none of those is good, wtf is wrong with you?"17% (5)9% (4)15% (9)Vote
Oh well, fuck this.
Most Helpful Guy
I don't find promiscuity a very big problem. People have different views of what a relationship should or can be like. Monogamy is one option but it's not the only option. As for the STDs, I find it rather silly that people on this site constantly connect promiscuity with STDs. If you protect yourself decently, nothing at all can happen. My best guy friend lives very promiscuously and he's just fine.
As for the other three things: smoking also causes a lot of harm. Not just to yourself but also to others. There's a reason many countries prohibit smoking in public buildings or smoking inside your car when you have children on the backseat. There's passive smoking, where you basically always have to breath in other people's smoke although you don't smoke yourself and that's just as bad as smoking (according to some studies, it's actually even WORSE than smoking yourself). It's also rather disgusting in my opinion. I go to college by bus and train because we don't drive so much, we mostly use public transportation in my country and there's nothing worse than standing at the train station at 7 in the morning and somebody exhales the smoke of his/her "morning cigarette" right into your face. It makes me wanna puke in these people's faces.
I don't think I wouldn't want to have any girlfriend with a serious addiction to anything. Addition is per se something bad.1
Most Helpful Girl
Obviously, addiction isn't good. Things in moderation is better. But if I had to pick out of the 4, I would says sex is the least harmful. You can protect yourself against STDs and pregnancy. There are definitely issues, both physical and mental for being addicted to sex, though.
But with drinking, you are damaging your liver, your heart (stroke, Cardiomyopathy , etc) sexual dysfunction, mouth issues, alcohol poisoning, etc.
Smoking can cause lung cancer (even second hand smoking), COPD (my grandfather passed away due to this), heart disease, cervical cancer, blood cancer, infertility, etc.
Drugs are bad for your body and can cause organ failure, illness, disabilities, death, etc.0